Handout 10: Responses
Read the following responses to the prompt you selected. Which responses seem to foster a sense of belonging? Why? Which seem to hinder inclusion? Why?
Sophie and Chrystal
Don't ask that, Chrystal. It's not nice.
She can walk, Chrystal. She just needs a walker to help her.
She was born that way.
Sophie is walking with her walker, Chrystal. Do you mean why does she need a walker?
Other: ______________________________________________________________Peter
I don't think you are stupid, Peter. That seat belt is just a bit tricky to buckle.
Don't say that, Peter.
You are fine, Peter. Let's not worry about that today.
I know you are not stupid, Peter. You are smart in. lots of ways.
Other: ______________________________________________________________Shiva and Vuk
I'm not sure, Vuk. I'll try to make sure that it doesn't happen again. Hitting is not allowed here.
She's just like all of us, Vuk. She gets upset and takes it out on others.
I think Shiva just hits the person who is closest to her when she gets upset. I'm sorry you got hurt.
She's hitting because she has Down syndrome, Vuk.
Other: ______________________________________________________________Neighbor
Oh, yeah. He's an inclusion kid.Manny
He's just like all kids, really. He just needs crutches to get around.
Oh, I don't feel special at all. It's those kids who are special.
Other: ______________________________________________________________
We have to take kids like Adam. It's the law.
Let's talk about Ryan first. How is he acting up? What's got you worried?
Adam has as much right to be here as any other child. Let's talk about your concerns.
Other: ______________________________________________________________Gabrielia's Aunt
You know, I'm not allowed to discuss any of the children or families with other people, not even relatives. Why don't you give Dora a call?
Gabriella is in bad shape. I think Dora's old boyfriend is back.
It's not really any of your business.
Other: ______________________________________________________________Community Center Staff Member
We are just as qualified as any other program to serve these kids.
We believe that all children have a right to attend our program and get the supports they need.
It's been hard sometimes, but wonderful, too.
We have to - it's the law.
Other: ______________________________________________________________